Tell us about yourself: who are you?
So, to start off with who I am. The alias I go by is Casey! I’m a 19 year old Hispanic guy that is creative, athletic and more attractive than most.
So far I’ve been doing this for over a year, and I intend to do it for a little while longer! I first found out about sugar dating from Tumblr, before that I thought it was some fictional relationship that was too good to be true.
What were your goals in starting the sugar journey?
When I first started I was looking for new people who I could connect with and get new experiences with, while also getting a little aid since I live on my own, and with school it’s hard to find hours to work.
When I decided this was something I was interested in I did some researching, not too much came up, and I really wish there was. I wish there was information about how filthy it could get, how much time it consumes, and how not everyone is honest.
What do you wish you’d known when you were first starting out?
One major thing that I wish I knew was to not trust everyone I came across! Also, to not travel far, and to make sure you have a safe way home.
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Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy? If online, which site?
I met my first sugar daddy on Seeking Arrangement, after spending over a month looking, and speaking to several members who wanted nothing more than to have a personal sex slave, someone to obey their every word, and just overall rude and overly sexual profiles, I found a gay couple, I referred to them as the diverse duo, because they were two completely opposite people, but their relationship was so adorable!!
What made them stand out was how happy they looked in their photos, and how kind they were when we were talking.
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Do you have any profile or online dating tips for aspiring sugar babies?
Before I go on I’d like to give some tips to anyone using online methods to find sugar daddies:
1) don’t expect to find them in a day, a week, or even a month!
2) be prepared for some really sexual people
3) there are so many people who only want your sugar, without giving any in return
4) some people lie
5) don’t put all of your eggs in one basket, so many times things don’t work out
6) make your profile as similar to you as possible, it helps find people who are more like you and, finally…
7) don’t be afraid to talk about money!! Don’t be afraid to ask for it, ask about it, or mention it, after all, that’s what sugar dating is essentially!
What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?
Now that I had myself some sugar daddies I enjoyed how much care and attention they gave me, they always had such wonderful things to say, and they would randomly surprise me with gifts, or outings!
We often went to nice restaurants and would just talk, they didn’t expect too much from me sexually, but I do enjoy a little intimacy!
I think my favorite part was seeing how they saw the world though. One of the main reasons I became a sugar baby was to see how people became successful and what set them apart from everyone else, this couple was always happy, always looking on the bright side, and they were passionate about everything they did! Find out more pros and cons of being a sugar baby!
That was probably what I enjoyed the most! Along with how much they spoiled me of course!
How do you keep your sugar relationship spicy/fun/interesting?
The way we kept things interesting was by always doing new things, I wouldn’t always ask to go shopping, or to go to expensive restaurants, but I would ask to go to nice places, like museums or the aquariums, just like normal dating!
We’d also just hang out and talk together, they were always interested in what I had to say!
One thing I did that I feel helped was I sent them gifts too, with some of the money they’d get me I’d buy them nice little presents, things that were personal, but not necessarily pricey, I could tell they enjoyed it! Want to learn more about how to “give to get?”
What advice would you give aspiring sugar babies?
This may all sound fun and interesting, but I can tell you that I had lots of negative experiences, one time I was stuck an hour away from home with no money, no phone, and no help.
As a sugar baby you deal with many negative people, so be prepared to talk to a lot of people that don’t care about you, or your interests.
Also, be comfortable with yourself, you’re going to have to market yourself just like any other commodity, because you’re selling yourself as a sugar baby, you are charging them for your time, so be the best you can be, find an angle and stick with it!
Mine was that I’m a skinny, toned, athlete that, while being a little unorthodox(I have dyed hair, really diverse views, and interests, and I’m just not a typical person you’d meet), can do well in social situations!
So I was always kind, respectful, and I wore clothes that defined my body well and went with my complexion! But above all, make sure that sugaring is something you’d want! There are many positives, but also a lot of negatives that come with being a sugar baby, you can feel guilty, nasty, and it can bring you down. Just make sure this is something you’re interested in!
Thank you for your time, I hope you have a wonderful day, and I hope that this was useful! Good luck sugaring babies!!
As always, Casey.
This post is part of our Real Sugar Baby Stories series, written by sugar babies, for sugar babies. If you want to share your own experiences with the sugar world – write for us!