A 21 Year Old Latina Sugar Baby: How to Vet a Sugar Daddy

Hi there, sugar babes! My name is Gabriela, you can call me the Latina sugar baby. I’m 21 and I live in Mexico. I’m a professional dancer and choreographer, I go to college, I study to become a nutritionist and work as a hostess in a famous restaurant in my city.

My life has always been good and comfortable, I’ve almost always lived with my family. I was spoiled by my parents and they set no rules or punishments. My dad owns his own business and my mom is dedicated to real estate, so I had everything I asked for.

I have a small yacht, live in a big house and own another one on the beach and I’ve always studied in private schools. Apparently my life was perfect and I would have never imagined to end up here.

Why Did You Become a Sugar baby?

When I turned 18, I had a boyfriend who proposed. He asked me to move to another state, I accepted and my family wasn’t happy about it. But I left anyway without their financial or emotional support.

I didn’t need their money because my boyfriend (at that time fiancé) paid for everything including my school, a nice apartment and even a dog that was like our child.

Everything was perfect until I noticed I wasn’t ready for that big step and decided to go back home with my parents. I thought they wouldn’t accept me but they did under their terms, they set some rules I had to follow and they stopped giving me all the money I asked for or buying makeup, new clothes and shoes or trips.

I decided to find a part time job to pay my trips and personal stuff. Everything was going well but it wasn’t enough to what I was used to spending.

How Did You Get Started as a Sugar Baby?

That’s how I was one night in bed drinking wine and reading a magazine on my cellphone, there was an article of a sugar baby telling her experience and how it helped her financially and personally, she said she met her sugar daddy on Seeking.com.

So after reading the article I went to the website and created my profile just to see what happened. To be honest I didn’t believe it would work because I’m not like all the gorgeous-skinny-blonde sugar babies I’ve seen online.

I am a Latina sugar baby – petite, brunette, curvy, with black hair and brown eyes. But I was surprised when I got a lot of messages from sugar daddies near my city and even from other countries telling me to travel for a meeting. It was insane.

Where did you meet your sugar daddy?

There was one in particular that caught my attention: 37, same city, entrepreneur, cute and really funny. I enjoyed talking to him, we exchanged numbers and talked a lot like if we had met a long time ago.

After a month we met one night and everything was great – until we had sex. He confessed he was married and had a child but he wanted me to be his sugar baby and he would spoil and pamper me. But after the time we had sex he never wrote again and I never got ‘’sugar’’.

Read: 8 Common Sugar Baby Mistakes (and How to Avoid Them)

I wished I had known better, but I learned from that mistake that having a sugar daddy was more than that. It was like dating any other man. If you have sex on the first date, he will be a f*ck boy or you may never hear back from him.

That’s how I found my actual sugar daddy, we started texting and we set a date to have lunch and talk about the arrangement. I was very skeptical after my first experience but anyway decided to give a try, if it didn’t work at least I’d have a free lunch in a nice restaurant.

But since we started talking, chemistry was so natural. It didn’t feel uncomfortable at all. We talked about each other and our lives. I had already Googled him for my own sake but I pretended I knew nothing.

We also talked about the arrangement and we were both new in the sugar bowl. That made things easier because together we discussed our terms. It was going to be something flexible and we didn’t have to stick to certain number of dates or the time the dates would last but we’d try to at least meet once a week.

Anyway he was going to give me a monthly allowance which is what I was looking for.

Do you have any Online Dating tips for sugar babies?

What attracted me from this sugar daddy was that he was sincere from the beginning. He never pushed me to do anything and made me feel comfortable.

His profile was very discreet. He never bragged about anything and said he was a busy man, an entrepreneur that wanted to mentor his sugar baby besides everything else. He was interested in a girl that could have a mature conversation and be more than a pretty face. And he was open to suggestions for the arrangement.

His profile was very simple but concrete and specific. The best thing was that he was sincere and I could see that in the first meeting.

That’s what I suggest you girls to have in mind. Don’t trust in the most attractive profile that promises everything. Feel free and for your own security – Google your prospect’s name to see what kind of man are you about to be with.

Remember that we are not escorts or whores that will sell themselves for a few dollars. Every girl is worth an amount money can’t pay. So feel free to ask for what you consider reasonable for you.

Read: The Most Reasonable Sugar Baby Allowance Calculator

If a sugar daddy is offering something you are not ok with, feel free to tell him. If he doesn’t want to raise the amount or makes you feel uncomfortable, just let him go. You can just dive again in the sugar bowl, there will be another sugar daddy who can give you what you want.

What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?

I don’t know how sugar relationships are seen in other countries, but at least in Mexico this is something new. People keep talking crap about it. They consider it’s a fancy way of prostitution which is very far from what we are.

But the advantages of being a sugar baby is that no one will get to know if you are discreet.

Read: Secret Sugar Baby 101: How to Hide Being a Sugar Baby

You can hang out without dressing in tiny clothes. Just dress like you were going with friends and everything is normal. My friends don’t know and it’s like my dirty little secret, this really works for me.

How do you keep your sugar relationship spicy/fun/interesting?

My relationship is interesting and really cool because we get along very well. We travel, and we text or talk on the phone when we can’t meet. We are good friends and he helps me with my personal growth with his coaching.

He also has a really cool job with VIP access to some events, concerts and trips that he’s been taking me to. Sometimes as his companion but sometimes, he gives me tickets for concerts to go with my friends.

When I go to a club with my friends he sends me a champagne bottle ‘’anonymously’’ to enjoy with my girls. And he’s never jealous of what I do when I’m not with him which is something very important.

We each have our own space and freedom. I think that’s the secret of any type of relationship. I also still live with my parents and they don’t know (of course I’m not planning to tell them). My family is my priority, he understands I cancel dates sometimes to be with them.

What advice would you give aspiring sugar babies?

This is my story. Now girls, you don’t have to be craving for money anymore if you have a great attitude. Don’t be afraid to become a sugar baby if this is what you want. There’s nothing wrong with that!!

And most important: Be yourselves! Don’t try to be what you’re not, it’s always better to be spontaneous and that is something a sugar daddy will appreciate.

If you have any other doubt or question, or if there’s anything else you think I can help you with, feel free to ask, I always like to answer as I would like to find this blog before diving into the sugar bowl. Good luck in your searching!

XOXO,
Latina Sugar Baby