How to Get Gifts from Your SD: The Secret All Smart Sugar Babies Know

You’re a sugar baby for a reason – you love sugar 🙂 – and you want more (a lot more!) sugar from your sugar daddy.

Whether you currently have an Allowance Daddy who you’d like to also receive gifts from or a Gift Daddy who you’d like more extravagant spoiling from – you want to increase the amount of sugar in your life.

So how do you go about doing this in the most graceful, effortless way possible? That means, without begging, without demanding, without stressing out your sugar daddy or coming off as ungrateful.

It’s simple: you make him want to give you more. Without you even having to ask.

If you’re wondering how this is possible – we’re going to clue you in on a secret all smart, successful sugar babies know. It’s the same secret the best sales people, marketing experts, and business mavericks know and use to their advantage as well.

And it’s a secret that’s guaranteed to work. Why? ‘Cause it’s law.

Yes, we’re talking about the Law of Reciprocity. Have you ever noticed that you want to do something nice for people who do nice things for you, even when they haven’t asked you to?

That’s the Law of Reciprocity at work, which basically says that when someone does something nice for you, you’ll experience a deep-rooted psychological urge to do something nice in return.

What’s even crazier about the Law of Reciprocity is that you’ll often feel motivated to reciprocate with a gesture that’s far more generous than their original good deed.

It’s a strange, yet wonderfully effective law that humans can’t help but respond to – we simply like to give back to those who give to us.

This doesn’t mean you have to spend mucho money on your sugar daddy to make him give you more sugar. You can apply this law in ways that only cost you a few dollars but makes your sugar daddy feel so satisfied and grateful he’ll make it his mission to pamper you silly!

Here’s how to start working this magic today…

The Smart Sugar Baby’s Guide to Gift Giving

Giving gifts to your sugar daddy is one of the smartest sugar baby moves – and one of the best kept sugar baby secrets 🙂

But not all gifts will have the impact you want and the last thing you want to do is spend your precious allowance money on presents that won’t score you any points with your sugar daddy.

Instead, you want to find gifts that hit the perfect sweet spot – as in, doesn’t cost you much but makes a huge impact on how your sugar daddy perceives you.

To do this, look for gifts that meet these 3 criteria…

  1. Make him think of you often in a happy, grateful way. We love gifting sugar daddies stuff that they’ll use daily- ’cause that way he’ll feel happy and grateful toward you pretty much every day 😉
  2. Show him that you care about him and have been paying attention. Thoughtful gifts that show you’ve truly been paying attention and that you care enough about him to improve his life or make his life easier in some way.
  3. Demonstrate he’s special to you and you have a special bond. These are the “secret meaning” gifts that are small in price but huge in sentimental value that endear you to your sugar daddy and really bond him to you. This one’s a little tricker than the above – no worries, we’ll give you examples soon 🙂

One of the easiest ways to get started picking the perfect sugar daddy gifts is to pay attention and observe how you can add value to his life. Look for things you can improve in his life or things that will brighten up his day.

Like this…

Does your sugar daddy love his drinks icy cold – but hate running to the vending machine or his fridge every several minutes? Simplify his life with a USB fridge cooler


Many sugar daddies are workaholics and workaholics often forget to eat. Show him you care with this cute Emergency Food Tin, complete with a lunch you pack (or buy) just for him…


Does he love beer? Pick up a few craft beer candles for his home or office. It’ll cost you practically nothing and he’ll be pleased with the thoughtful gift every time he smells the lovely scent…


Does your sugar daddy love to travel? Even more importantly – do you want him to take you somewhere amazing? Gift him a deluxe Scratch-Off Map to remember his travels with and attach a little note about how you’d love to visit fill-in-the-blank-exotic-location with him…

Attach a little post-it on the part of the world you want to visit with a note that says “Can’t wait to be here with you!”

Is he a workaholic who’s often strapped with pens and paper? Show him you’ve noticed and you want to make his day-to-day easier by hooking him up with this awesome snap-on web iPad case!


Some sugar daddies really love practical gifts. For example – is your sugar daddy a bit of a hygiene freak? Impress him with a low-maintenance self-cleaning toothbrush – the Nano-b Charcoal and Gold Toothbrush has gold integrated into the bristles to release negatively charged ions that suppress bacterial cells, meaning this brush cleans itself every six hours. He’ll be happy with the thoughtful gift and think of you every time he brushes his teeth (at least twice a day :))…


Is your sugar daddy going through a stressful period of his life? Bring a smile to his face and show you care with an adult coloring book you choose just for him…


Is he on his phone a lot…even when it’s cold? Make his life easier (and keep his fingers warm) with these touch screen gloves


Men don’t carry purses (well, most don’t) – which means most sugar daddies have to dump their keys, wallets, cell phones in the car and scoop them all up again when they get out. Make the process easier for him with a super practical anti-slip grip pad for his car


Does your sugar daddy have trouble sleeping ’cause he drinks too much caffeine? Maybe he’s trying to live healthier by quitting coffee. Either way, show him you care by gifting him a fun tea infuser he’ll actually want to use (bonus points for adding some yummy tea)…


Some people say they have the best ideas in the shower – especially busy people who’s minds are always running. If your sugar daddy falls into this category, gift him the ability to always remember his most brilliant ideas…


The above, quite practical gifts may not impress you but they all meet criteria #1 and #2 – they show you’ve been paying attention to him and care about making his life happier and easier.

But what about criteria #3?

These “secret meaning” gifts are powerful but trickier because they are specific to your relationship. These gifts are anything that play off an inside joke only the two of you share, a nickname he has for you or a nickname you have for him, or something that reminds him of a moment you guys had together.

In essence, these are gifts that speak to something only you and him understand and share. So to find the perfect “secret meaning” gifts for your sugar daddy, you’ll have to think over your relationship and find the things that have made you laugh, helped you bond, topics of conversation you keep returning back to, etc.

Here’s a few examples from our own lives:

I had a SD who had a habit of using the F-bomb – and he was really trying to stop. To make light of the situation and help him with his predicament, I gifted him this adorable mug


Another sugar baby we knew called her SD “batman” since he was very wealthy, superbly resourceful, and preferred to dress in black. Choosing cute little gifts for him was easy peasy – all she had to do was pick him up the occasional batman pen, batman cufflinks, and other memorabilia that’d remind him of her.

The best part of this gift-giving business is that the gift doesn’t have to be just for him. One sugar daddy loved his fantasy football so one day, totally out of the blue, I showed up to his house dressed in a super sexy fantasy football costume – needlessly to say, he was incredibly happy with this gift.

More gift giving tips for sugar babies…

How often? As always, quality over quantity. We personally like to practice this every month or two but it’s more important to find a great gift than to simply do it just because.

At what point in the sugar relationship? It’s important that you only begin giving him gifts after he’s made a financial contribution to your life. The Law of Reciprocity works with pretty much everyone, but you want to invest your time, effort, and energy into the most promising returns – and a sugar daddy who’s already willing and able to provide you with an allowance or great gifts is your best bet.

Does this really work? Yes, this stuff actually works. In fact, it’s one of the most effective things we’ve ever used to instantly increase sugar daddy happiness and get extra goodies from an already great sugar relationship. But hey, you won’t know ’til you’ve tried it yourself. So give it a whirl and let us know how it goes in the comments!

2 thoughts on “How to Get Gifts from Your SD: The Secret All Smart Sugar Babies Know”

  1. What address do we give them for gifts. Like should I give my actual address or should I give a PO Box.

    I’m new to the whole Sugar World so if there are any other Babies in the Cleveland/Mentor area of Ohio or anywhere in Ohio message me:


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