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“A simple solution is just to keep him happy.”
Yes. That’s very good advice. Choose well, keep them happy.
” He’ll only realize if you cancel multiple dates or get him mixed up with somebody else. ” On no. NOT good.
Do you ever recall hearing anything about dating men older than yourself which mentions the things you can learn from their Life experiences? Also, do you remember ever hearing of the expression about a “Woman’s Intuition” ability? A person with experience can seem to “feel things” as if from the Ether. You amaze children and pets for a magnified but similar reason. Knowledge.
The more life experience with people, and one starts to read them, like having extra intuitive ability. Facial cues, word/phrase/nickname choices used, tone of voice, as well as minutia that either adds up to what one expects to see, in that pattern of accepted Reality, or something does NOT line up properly.
Then, even if not consciously, there is doubt. “You don’t add up now, for some reason.” Tons of people in any situation seeing another, are noted as having someone else EXACTLY like that. Then pull the string. It unravels them.
The kitten. Cute, right? But toying with adults needs to be way limited. Pull it away a little, then reward, or you are one of the sugar babies that looks like just a tease, whatever you must be getting from it. Like “catfishing” people. Treat guys that are “The John” this way, since they want to treat you like a toy as well.
The kind of Sugar Daddy you mostly will want, will be financially stable and will think of you as a Person who interests them. Treat him as a respected equal, and you may find he prefers treating you the same, or that he already was treating you that way. Disrespect, even perceived, turns women and men off.
Being intellectually insulted is my least favorite kind.
I’m working on one, ONE, “sugar business baby”, let’s call her. Is it because I’m too lazy to look around more? No. Women approach me. I could have a few women I see and am not supposed to care about, just organically as I go through Life. She’s particularly special.
She’s a beautiful 26 year-old who likes to say “25”. She’s funny and talkative. She has enough intelligence to practice Law, and do it well, so plenty.
I’m laying out my proposal, including paying for her coming graduate school. I look forward to likely romantic dating, taking her to festivals and shows, overseas travel when I can tear her away from her schedule, and who knows what kind of awesome it can be.
She benefits, I benefit, and we both count as people the whole time.
If I am played with, it will be all over everything she says, and there will be 80K less coming her way. This woman would be a WAY quality companion, but not if she starts playing Junior High school games and becomes a little girl, right in front of me.
Remember your exes? Men remember theirs too. You are part of the solution , so creating new problems is like the zipper that won’t zip.
ReplyUnless the woman is a complete emotionless sociopath, a SD will know – given that he doesn’t willfully ignore it. Best option is just get one that is so busy that he doesn’t care. If the SD cares, he will know. Its like a suburban white guy trying to talk like he is from the hood – the act will never be genuine.
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