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ReplySame here I told them I’ll do PayPal cash or cash app and they act as if I ask them to kill someone
Replysame, if you cant cash app, pre paid card or pay pal it then i dont want it
ReplyIs it legit if a sugar daddy asks for you to get a pre paid stream card and give him the numbers. This is my first experience doing this. Thank you
ReplyA sugar daddy should never ask you to buy them a gift card. You shouldn’t have to give them money in order to receive it.
ReplyWhat about when they get u to open a trust wallet app and u have to put money into bitcoin ? Said once u do that u bet the money instantly ? Is this true
ReplyHe scammer you should have by stream then give him the info he scamming you sorry
ReplyMany people who give out bank information, 95% have gotten scammed. They can easily take out money and leave you in the negative to where you have to pay it back.
Replysame i met so many men who said they can send money but they claim they have to send it through the bank.
ReplyI am looking for someone who could treat me like a princess and that would take very good care of me
Replyhow about setting up an ibc ( or international business corporation) in 1 jurisdiction with a bank account linked to a credit card in say the isle of man or sark or Luxembourg, etc. If there is over $250,000 a year going through have an asset protection trust as well as international trust agreement banking agreement drawn up
ReplyIf my sugar daddy user name and password to my acct and acct number and routing number is he trying to spam me??
ReplyYes, 100% there’s a ton of guys on these sites that ask you for user names and passwords to your account! They want to get into your account so they can drain it! They claim that they been burned by other sugar babies and that this is the only way that they will deposit money into your account is by doing a mobile deposit. I’ve had the same thing happened to me plenty of times. I’ve explained that they can use PayPal, they can use SurePay by Wells Fargo, they can use Venmo, they can use square…there’s plenty of way someone can send you money without giving up your login information! Don’t do it it’s a scam 100% say goodbye and don’t look back.
ReplyIm crrently establishing allowance with my first POT and how to receive said allowance but I have a ton of questions. Can you please email me
ReplyI’m a newbie to being a Sugar BAby I feel so stupid I didn’t do my resarch before I acually gaved my bank info this SD asked for my bank username and password I trusted him he made a deposit of 1,700 which is on hold how can I cancel the deposit ? Is their a way I can just cancel it and what are the consequences to that deposit?
ReplyYou should feel stupid. What person with a brain does something like that? You know what happens when you give out your personal info? You get scammed for life and when they give you their account info without even meeting you, they’re setting you up to be arrested for fraud.
ReplyThere’s no need to belittle anyone over a mistake that they made nearly a year ago. I’m sure the individual already understands the ramifications of their actions without your words.
ReplyThats what I said. I have been scammed before and yes I felt like a complete idiot. When your desperate to help your children you will go to the moon and back. Sometimes we let our guards down. Mistakes happen. I am sure she already feels bad enough but to call her stupid is downright rude and heartless
ReplyI have a PSD that also asked for my CC username and password to pay off my CC debt before we meet. I didn’t give it to him thought thinking that was strange. Who in the world would want to pay off my CC debt before even meeting me?? So I did some research and glad I didn’t. So what exactly do you mean about “they’re setting you up to be arrested for fraud” how would they even do that?
ReplySilverleaf….why would you say that? Don’t you think she feels bad enough and then you call her stupid on top of it all. Totally not cool.
ReplyMe too! I don’t know who to trust which site is the best and most legitimate. Would love more information. I need the money for my children so bad we live in a camper I am disabled.
ReplyI need a fine looking sugar daddy to spoil me in return you will get something t remember when you home and you will want more
ReplyI am trying to figure out what to do with my situation.. I’m meeting my SD in march and I have been promised and given as a first allowance a loan which he guarantor for.. I’ll be getting cash when we meet apprantly.. I live in Australia he is in NY do loaning companies ask for a fee when sending money overseas ???
ReplyI don’t know the answer to that but is he paying for your travel if not don’t do it. Also tell someone you trust where your going for long exactly who you think your meeting and when you plan to be back so that if he is someone bad they can know where to start looking for you. If he is the one with the money why doesn’t he come to you. Just be safe bring pepper spray or something before you meet up. Respond back on here so we know that you are ok please.
ReplyHow do you declare your money gifted to you as taxable? I don’t want to get in any trouble and would rather everything was upfront. Does it count as personal allowance? Is it me being self employed? Would I get questioned about where I got it all anyway?
Replya new sugar daddy claims to have spent a lot on his last project (didnt mention what it was), stating his last month’s check is still delayed. he wants me to take a loan of 3k from the company that gave him the loan, while making him the guarantor to pay back.
Is this safe. i don’t believe it because i never even met him. If it’s so simple, why can’t he take out another loan. do you think i should do this or is he a fraud. wouldn’t he get my personal info in me doing this fake loan? it could be him portraying the loan company for all i know. please help
ReplyDon’t do it! It’s 100% scam! Anyone asking you to send money back to them or to take out a loan is trying to launder money in some way or another! Don’t get involved with that or you could end up getting arrested in jail! It’s not worth it this is not a real sugar daddy. I’m real sugar daddy would never ask you to do something like that! Be safe be smart. If it feels wrong and it doesn’t sound right it’s not. Trust your gut girl.
ReplyAndrew I bet his name is just tried the same with me. I would never take out a loan for a stranger. He later called me out of my name for telling him no and and that karma would get him
ReplyFuck des lien ass man Dey want yo information 2 drain u dry I never did it but people I know have
ReplySounds fishy to me I 100% wouldn’t do it. There are plenty of other ways for him to give you money and Rhee is no reason who needs you to do this. How long have you known him? Has he ever paid you before? The fact that you are asking this question on here tells me that you’re instincts already know its not right. So I always say listen to your gut feeling. Let us know what happens please
ReplyMy potential SD says he only does bank to bank transfers. Is this legit or a scam. Should I create an account just for him to transfer money into and then remove it?
ReplySo he’s saying he wants me to open a separate account at a specific bank and he’ll transfer money into it? I need a mentor! I’m so new and I don’t want to lose the little I do have!
ReplyBy all means, if you’re still new to the SD-SB relationship, don’t accept anything unless it’s in cash! I did this with a guy who promised that he was going to send money, I trusted him, and he kept telling me over and over that he was going to send it, but he never did! Treat yourselves like a princess before expecting anything from anyone, and don’t settle if you feel uncomfortable with the deal. If it seems too good to be true, it most likely is.
ReplyI have been promised a large amount of money by a potential sugar daddy and he is wanting not only my checking account information but also mobile banking information… I try to see the good in this situation but I have my doubts. My checking account has $0 in it and was created for our transactions, but i don’t want to be made out to be a fool considering my primary checking is attached to this account… what do I do!? Any suggestions??
ReplyI have a PayPal account already just have to let you know the account number. Will let you know
ReplyI’ve been using Amex bluebird . It’s been awesome for depositing & spending my 10k a month allowance. My SD had only paid cash to others so when I mentioned my method he was very proud to see I had done my research into being a responsible SB. It’s a win win
ReplyGirl help me get a sugar daddy like yours giving allowance of 10k per month ! Text me 209-675-9270
Replydjsexyprincessjasmine@gmail.com hi baby congratulations on your 10K sugar daddy if it’s not too much trouble can you please email me I would like to ask you a few questions. All real sugar daddies and pay pigs and slaves feel free to reach me only if you would do PayPal for me which is extremely easy and to the scammers please do not waste your time because I will never ever give any personal information out ever
Replythanks for sharing i just download the Amex Bluebird app it looks great so far.
ReplyHi Shae, not sure what you mean. The bank login info is for online banking and is not necessary to receive a wire transfer. All he needs is your bank account number and a routing code – not your bank login details.
ReplyHas anyone tried Chase Quick Pay? I’m new to this scene and want to have all my ducks in a row before I really get started.
ReplyI use PayPal or receive cash. Never had to give out my bank details. I would only go that far with a SD that I really trust
ReplyI have a question a Sugardaddy told me to get a nonreloadable prepaid card so he can deposit money on it..i knew it was a scam but what do u guys think
ReplyI have a potential sugar daddy and I don’t know if i should trust him with personal banking info. Should i just open a new account?
ReplyHelp! I’m new to the Sugar Bowl as well. I’m talking to a POT and he wants me to get a onevanilla prepaid card. Is that safe? Or am I being scammed? I just want to make sure. Is that prepaid card a good one?
Thank you!
ReplyIm having the same problem as well. The card itself even says it’s non reloadable. So idk.how the hell they would reload it. It’s making me wonder. I’ve had 2 SD tell me to get one. But I have to put 50 in it just for them to out money on it.
ReplyOMG ME TOO, I’ve had to buy cards for them to put money on, and they are SO PUSHY, and I sent this SM like $75 and she kept saying she’ll send me my money once I send another $25, my card declined and still no money. @lanadelany112 on Twitter
ReplyI’m thinking of getting into the sugar bowl as well. SM says she’ll pay my cc bill with 1 grand a week allowance. Scam or not?
Replyyes can some wise sugar baby please text me 9564138485 im freaking out about how to do my taxes for the coming year.. ive had different sugar daddies over the course of the year i started sugaring in april 2017 and ive earned from april till now about 6000 so how do i do my taxes.. i do not want to be under the radar of the irs please help
ReplyI have a POT that transferred money from a Russian business called NSI money transfer. He has a receipt and I got emails from the company saying my money was ready. But there is a 10% service fee that I have to pay first. It states it on their website. The instructions were to go thru western union or money gram and sent it to a person that’s local. Basically send $500 to some woman here in Dallas. I haven’t done it. Anyone else heard of this company?
ReplyHi im merita can you please help me i own money to people just to get out of this problem
ReplyI was told to go buy a prepay beesor or Mastercard put $50 on it and he will top it Straight up from merchant I account through his bank, Hum new to this have no idea what the h*** he is talking about but I don’t want to sing dumb are stupid lol please help is this legitimate can he a blow money on the car without me giving him the information
ReplyI understand why they are asking for bank logins or getting a credit card from WalMart. They are not trying to scam you or drain your account. Of course, if you have so much money in your account you won’t be looking for a sugar daddy. It is only bad when they deposit a fake check in there cos the bank will come calling after a month or two or less.You guys have a lot to learn about this. I know everything and I mean everything. You can make so much money with this if you understand what they do. I can share my knowledge with anyone willing to learn 512-273-4650
ReplyI need guidencd!! First time sugar baby.. but am aware of fake people on social sites.. but i dont want to come into this with a mindset of whos fake. I have been researching online but now im lost!! I would just dive right in but i am taking this seriously.. i need help ..especially all this bank acct info? Please help.lol
ReplyHi my SD,asked for my bank account number, name n name of the bank. After He sent me €2000 In bank account which is R30k + in South Africa. Now he says I must buy a Gift Card for r300 on Google Play Store, so the money can be transferred to my bank account immediately. Is it true n safe?
ReplyOk so ever since I have become a SB I have gotten nothing but seemingly scammy demands. I was just in an arrangement with someone i thought I trusted and it ended up with him using a fake check to deposit into my account. Thank goodness my bank had taken a good look at the check because if not it would have gotten bad quick. I really need some mentoring from a recent or previous SB who has had both some good and bad. So i can be taught what is basically right or wrong when it comes to the different aspects of a POT.
ReplyIs this kind of the same as a “possible” SD giving his bank account information for me to use on my credit card to make payments? Gave me his acct. number and routing. It looks legit so I made a payment. It went through but could it still be bad? Should I have not made the payment?
ReplyPre-paid cards are traceable and can be cancelled and funds replaced if lost or stolen. You can even dispute a transaction on them. The reloadable ones are just a like a bank account and you have to verify all of information. The non-reloadable ones can have outrageous fees such as a per transaction fees, account maintenance fees, etc.
And Bitcoin is not as anonymous as everybody thinks. Security experts call it pseudonymous privacy. Your personal details can be linked to your Bitcoin address and as soon as that happens, your entire purchase history is revealed.
Cash is always the best. Just be smart about it.
MIT calls it pseudo-anonymous. Yes, your purchase are only identifiable by an electronic address but once you and your electronic address are connect
ReplyOkay so the prepaid card thing is not An scam or is it…ive gad numerous sd ask me to purchase one!!!
ReplyHi, I’m new as a SB if anyone can be kind to answer my question, is it safe from the IRS from snooping if my POT transfers money to my bank account?
ReplyI met a potential SD on Grindr and it looks too good to be true! He says no PayPal but he asked about checks? He gave me his number and we are texting back n forth. He seems really nice?? I’m new to this and I just don’t want to be scammed! Any advice or help?
ReplyHey,
I have a POT that wants to set up a direct debit to my account every month. Is it save to give him my account number and sort code? so that he can deposit money in there monthly.
Everyone I have talked to asked me to ask others to use their card and I’m just like no I can’t do that. I use PayPal and cash app because I have been scammed before.
ReplyWhat if you haven’t gotten paid yet by a SD and they want you to buy them gift cards like Itunes or Googleplay on your credit card. They say they’ll pay your credit card bill right away
ReplyThat is a scam! The only ways to get paid by an SD are cash, physical gifts or thru Venno/Cash app. They should not be asking you to purchase anything in order for you to receive $.
ReplyMy SD wants to pay off my credit card, how can he do that? Should I trust him?
ReplySo as an SD what I do for the two ladies I help is sent them a pre-paid Credit Card which I top up every month or add to for extra gifts. They have there own login details so they can see what they have used the card for and or dispute any transactions. While I did need there real name so they have no issue using the card I originally sent the cards to a PO Box until trust was earned on both sides. Please note this is from a UK card issuer which I sent to the US and while there is some currency fee’s I have to pay and a few ATM charges it does make things pretty untraceable for them and the TAX man and neither side has had any problems with either card. As an SD there would be no reason for me to ask for bank login details all I would need is basic account details so any payment can be made as for PayPal I have had issues with them in the past. So I stick the pre-paid cards now and some cash amounts when I visit. Hope that helps
ReplyThank you so much for the input Bynot – I think most of the ladies here are getting scammed. I’m sure you will help ALOT of ladies starting out,including myself!
ReplyGlad to help Briane. any questions from an SD’s point of view happy to help where I can.
Even as an SD I’ve been scammed myself in the past by some very convincing people. My main rule now is I do not enter into any arrangement without meeting them first in person you’d be surprised how quickly that puts the scammers off. I would advise anyone to take someone with you when you go to that first meeting even if they are just in the background or make sure you tell someone where you are going and times or at the least have a friend just call you during the first meeting at a set time.
I know it can be difficult to be open with people about this sort of thing but it is better to be safe than sorry I know it can be very easy for ladies sometimes to agree to giving out information because they might be in a dire situation but always take a moment to think about do I really need to give out all this information.
To be very honest most genuine SD’s want a long and fulling relationship and don’t mind being asked questions or that you have concerns giving out certain sensitive information and most genuine SD’s have done this before and know how things should be done properly and the ones I know will go out of their way to accommodate you and your needs an they won’t be aggressive in wanting your details IE: constant emails or sms making lots of promises.
Also anyone asking you to buy this or that so they can do this or that to get money to you is a big massive warning. As I said I can get money to any bank account that excepts international payments with the basic of basic bank information and if worst ever came to the worst there is always WU in an emergency.
As for a supposed SD saying they want to pay off your credit card bill I would only enter into this once trust is built and you have at least met them quite a few times.
I think that if you just spend a day doing a bit of research, google is a wonderful thing, as scammers stories are all pretty much the same.
ReplySo what are your thoughts on a SD asking for you to get a gift card load it up and give you the front and back card information and receipt.. for them to put money in it?
ReplyI just became a sugar baby like two days ago, three potential Daddy’s telling me they need something, like one says, I need to buy a this card for the arrangement to begin. Another one I was stupid enough to give out all my bank info and now he is linked into it and I am not even his “accountant” is linked into it. Another wants me to get a bank account, two out of the three wanting nudes and videos. One wants me to keep everything a secret, not wanting to meet, why would they do this and what should I do, they even convinced me to deactivate my account, I feel so stupid can u help me please. Thank you
ReplyThis is strange… a potential SD asked me for my CC log in info so he can pay it of and thats even before we meet! He also told me to deactivate my account just like they told you?! Any updates about so far Christina?
ReplyDoes anyone know the direct deposit process really well? like, how to set it up, what information is needed by both parties to make sure that no ones banking information or security information is compromised?
ReplyWould it be safe to set up an account with another bank that they can have full access to instead of giving them your personal banking login?
ReplyAre you joking? You must be a real idiot telling girls to give out their bank information to their SD. I don’t care HOW well you know the man, you do not Ever give away personal information like that are you crazy? You must be new here.
ReplyI need help. I have a sugar daddy who sent me 3,600.00 in checks and I deposit them. And now my bank account if Frozen. What does this mean? Am I getting reported. Or am I going to get the irs on my ass for it?
ReplyMy sugar daddy is only asking to chat no nudes no nothing. He sent me a check but the check just doesn’t look real to me. Could anyone help me on this?
ReplyTake any checks to the bank they are drawn on and ask the teller to verify the account.
ReplyWhat about RDC payments? That all they want to do for me. They say it’s safe but idk…
ReplyHi. I’m confused because I’ve never done this type of dating before. My potential sugar daddy is saying he will mail me cash via fedex or pay my credit card. I’m just not sure how this is supposed to work because I had asked to do transfers via PayPal or zelle and he told me those don’t work for him. Does that mean it’s or a scam or is he just trying to avoid the paper trail?
ReplyI felt dumb giving my SD my bank info but that same day he paid off my CC. Buttt now he’s saying to spend money on gift cards for him he says so he knows he can trust me and will pay it off right after. What do you guys think?
Replyso my sugar daddy told me to get a google play card and he would match it to his account and he would cash app the money, so his wife would see transactions w google instead of paying me directly. am i being scammed?
ReplyYes, that’s a scam. If it sounds too good to be true then it usually is. Follow your gut instinct.
I set up an account on Google Pay but did not link any bank information to it. Google *Play* is completely different from Google *Pay* or Google Wallet.
ReplyHey, I’m new to this SB business! I just recently had a SD, named Andrew Garrettson wanting to be my SD. He keeps asking for bank info. Or login info, but I keep telling him no and to use paypal,or zelle, or cashapp. He then said to get a reloadable vanilla card. He says hes in Dubai but if from California and so they do things different in dubai in regards of sending money. Should I trust that? Or is he scamming me?
ReplyI have a potential sugar daddy who wants me to pay him $55.00 to be put on his legitimate business app on cash app? Then he will send me money. I’m 100% that this is a scam then he sends me a picture of the money that he supposedly put in my account but it can’t be authorized before I add him? I’M ALL NEW and he knows it!
ReplyUm pause ! Bank deposits are an absolute no go, I’ve fallen for that trick before to then have the “sugar daddy” copy all of my ss checks as well as my work checks he redeposited them with different check numbers so that the check wouldn’t bounce back. He marked up a total of 12k dollars and had me send them to ransoms for “charity” he proceeded until my account got locked for redepositing without a different check number. I recommend meeting him first if you wish to continue this way..
ReplyGood point 🙂 Cash is king and is always an option – that goes without saying. It’s not listed here mainly because it’s fairly easy to receive. Storing it, on the other hand, can get tricky when you’ve been receiving for a couple months…
ReplyI don’t know if I’m getting scam or not it’s my first time they are asking me for my cash app and that they need me to pay them a fee for me to be approved as their suger baby and that I can pay half now and the other later
ReplyHi Mari, thanks for stopping by. Rule of thumb: any time a potential sugar daddy asks you to pay something to receive an allowance from them – it’s 99.99% of the time going to be a scam. Throw this POT back (and report them).
Replyplease help. I did number 2 in the beginning without knowing. How to I fix this?
ReplyI been trying to get a sugar daddy for the longest everyone always asked for username and password word for cashapp. But he asked for email and cash tag was that the right choice to do
ReplyI’m new to being a sugar baby. I’m currently talking to a sugar daddy. We’ve been talking for a couple of days now and we talked about my allowance. He asked how he should send it and I said Cashapp but he said direct deposit was better. I’ve been looking it up and so far the people I have asked have said that it’s “okay”? He hasn’t asked for any money or gift cards. I’m not sure what to do? I mean it’s not like I can get robbed 😂My account is in the negatives. I just need some advice please.
ReplySo much of this advice is bullshit. PayPal can take back the money easily. Giving out your bank info is sooooo risky. Holy shit. And prepaid cards are easy to scam too ahhh
ReplyHi, I’m a dumb peasant bitch who doesn’t know any skills or how to be a normal person and I’m even having trouble with trying to get millionaires to give me money… should I kill myself now or do it when I find out that being a sugar baby is a complete waste of life?
ReplyWhat is the best place to find a legit sugar daddy i am totally new to this?
Replyso this guy told me that i had to pay him 100 dollars for his business account to verify me so he can send me 2000 on cash app. is he trying to scam me
ReplyHi so my sugar daddy just a wants my full name and email to send to his account/financial person to send me money is that a scam ?
ReplyHonestly, I’m so new to this sugar baby game and I’m not comfortable even giving my possible sugar daddies the name of my bank ( mind you not of them have asked for any information but they do want to do mobile deposit. ) Whenever I suggest PayPal they say they can’t send the money to me and I’m new to this sure, but honey do I look stupid? PayPal and Venmo exist for that reason.
ReplySo I feel stupid…. Please help… I’m new to being a SB… I gave a SD my name and email address so he could give me a check which I deposited into my bank account. (at the time I didn’t know a fake check could be deposited that it has to be real.) Shortly after I received an email from my bank saying my account was locked due to suspicious activity, and then the SD texted me accusing me of trying to steal the money…. I’m afraid, will things be okay or not? Be honest…
ReplyCash cash cash. Trust me on this everyone wins non-traceable no explanations every Wednesday or Thursday you go to the bank and deposit it or you keep a lock box. For tax reasons being on an allowance is still too traceable. We don’t need the government knowing what we’re doing.
ReplyI gave my PayPal email address as SD requested it then said he couldn’t process the payment because the transfer fee won’t come out of his account because his allowance is set for his company. This is my first time so I’m being cautious and vigilant
ReplyI am a29 year lady with 2 kids I am a single parent I need a sugar daddy to give me money and will give my whole body for him
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