Hey ladies! My name is Dulce and I’m a 24 year old Chicago sugar baby. I’m Latina and working in the business industry in the beautiful city of Chicago.
I have been sugaring since 2015 and have been with my current sugar daddy for about 2.5 years.
Why Did You Become a Sugar Baby?
I started to sugar because I had just graduated college and lived at home with my parents and wanted to move out.
My initial goal was just to save some money to move. I ended up renting a place and was able to buy my first home just a few weeks ago!
What do you wish you had known?
Starting off as a sugar baby I did a lot of research but there were still a few things I wish I knew before going on POT dates.
First and foremost, don’t meet in a private setting (I knew this but ignored it). DON’T IGNORE IT. This is the number one rule for sugar baby safety. Most potential sugar daddies are nice, normal people. But putting yourself in a dangerous, private setting with even one predator is enough to ruin the whole experience.
Read: Sugar Baby Safety 101: How to Be Safe as a Sugar Baby
Also, lie and say you have had one arrangement even if you haven’t. Being a newbie means you could be taken advantage of. If you say you have had experience with this before, it’s less likely they’ll try something slick on you.
Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy?
The main way I look for daddies is on Tinder and Seeking.com. For a Chicago sugar baby like myself, the latter is great because there are plenty of members in my city.
I think what makes me stand out from other sugar babies is the effort I put into my profile.
Read: The Must Read Sugar Baby Profile Guide: 2023 Edition
I am very honest about what I want and what my expectations are. I have learned this attracts the REAL daddies. The legit sugar daddies who know what they want like to meet with sugar babies who know what they want. It’s a like attracts like principle.
What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?
My favorite thing about being a sugar baby is the fact that I don’t have to use my own money to pay my mortgage and bills 😉
Aside from that, I like being able to meet older men who can give me advice on my future. They’re rich, successful men, they have connections and can mentor you!!
How do you Keep a Sugar Relationship Spicy?
I keep my sugar relationship interesting by suggesting fun dates like a helicopter tour of the city or trying a new rooftop bar overseeing Lake Michigan.
Read: Sugar Daddy Date Ideas: 18 Things to Do With Your Sugar Daddy
Of course, always keep it sexy – in and outside of the bedroom – and always. Once in a while I will randomly wear lingerie under my clothes and when we go home…surprise!
He enjoys time with you so always make sure to be fun and show him you’re into him, you’ll end up being happy and spoiled.
What advice Do you Have for aspiring sugar babies?
I constantly get ladies asking me questions on my Tumblr so I decided I’d share some of the most asked questions:
Do I come up with a fake name?
YES!!! I usually use a shortened version of my name or do a longer one. But nothing they can use to find me on social media.
Do not give your last name unless you have established an arrangement. If you don’t need to give it to him, don’t. I give them my real name if I’m traveling and they’re booking flights or they need to send me money. I ONLY DO THIS ONCE I HAVE VERIFIED THEY ARE WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE.
What are the prices for meet and greet and allowance?
You ask what you are comfortable with. For a Chicago sugar baby, I think a legit daddy would not give you less than $500 per date once you have established something. The cost of living is quite high here. My daddy gives me $1500/month and I see him about 4x a month.
Read: How Much Do Sugar Babies Make? The Average Allowance Is…
At the beginning it’s usually on a per date basis. Most men do not want to feel like they’re being used, so I start off with “well I’d like to do what you’re comfortable with but my previous sugar daddy gave me ___”
Can a sugar baby have a limit for what you do sexually?
LADIES!!! Only do what you are comfortable with!!! Sex does not equal money and money does not equal sex! If you take away anything, remember that.
Always be bold and confident about what you will and won’t do. I have had sex on a first date but only because I wanted to. I do not recommend being sexual the first meet. Always know you have a secure arrangement before you give him anything physical.
Be upfront about what you want
Don’t be afraid to make your boundaries clear. Voicing your opinion now will save you time and stress later on. Compromise is also a word that is not lost on many sugar daddies.
Read: 7 Sugar Baby Boundaries that Keep You Safe and Happy
After getting to know you, some sugar daddies aren’t so firm on certain things, they’re more interested in having a relationship with you as a person and that’s where compromise comes in. You should also be ready to do the same for them.
Additional advice:
- Don’t use your real cell phone number. Get a Google number and download hangouts for free calls & texts .
- Daddies on tinder are the best! But you need to be patient and really shoot your shot (that’s how I found mine and he’s hot)
- Always share your location with a friend you can trust!
Hope you were able to learn something from me today!
