My name is Twalla Stephens. I would love to use my real name. It won’t affect my life at all. I am 29 years old, a mother of three boys-Gabriel, Immanuel, and Theodor-Jamal, and a former sugar baby, courtesan, Travel Companion and financial domme. Financial domination is a domination/submissive fetish, whereby one party, the submissive, gives another party, the Dominant, control over his/her finances.
I am now a Law Student, Freelance Journalist, Business Woman, homemaker, and trophy wife.
What were your goals in starting the sugar journey?
My goals starting out in the sugar journey was to rinse every man that I could, and retire out as a Trophy wife, which I accomplished.
What do you wish you had known when you were first starting out?
I, actually, was born into a long line of pimps and courtesans. It’s the family business. So, starting out I wish that I wouldn’t have had my son, Gabriel, as early as I did. I should had waited until I was 25 years old. I was in love and I thought that was what was best for me at the time. I wanted to be a homemaker and nothing like my mother, who was being kept by my father in a concubine situation.
Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy?
Most of my sugar daddies, I met, through FinDom. I never had sex with any of them. I ended up marrying my side daddy. My sugar daddies stood out to me because they had power. I had a Sugar Daddy who was a Governor who like watching me frolic in the sun to rich men who controlled the Governor. Power got me off more than the money. I did the lurking. I never had a profile or website, I was a Bloodhound Sugar Baby. Every Sugar Baby, if you been in the game that long, you just know who to pick
What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?
My favorite thing about being a sugar baby was being around the powerful men in the world, and making them fall. That is my fetish. I loved rinsing men, making seeing them cry actual tears, and walking out of their life.
How do you keep your sugar relationship spicy/fun/interesting?
DATING!!!! I love DATING! I loved the traveling! I loved the whole motion of dating from the dressing, to the time I spent getting ready, the car ride, the showing off….all that comes with dating.
What advice would you give to aspiring sugar babies?
The Advice I would give is:
a. Get your cake and eat theirs too. Self-explanatory!
b. Stay private. Say you are a Student. Never tell them the truth about your real status to anyone! My SDs always thought I was Student. It’s cute too!
c. Try to get to Trophy Wife status.
d. Have a side gig and escape plan, these things stop abuse.
e. CONTRACTS! This stop them from taking your things!
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