I’m Gillian, a full time business woman and high end sugar baby in my 30s who happened to stumble into the sugar world almost 10 years ago.
I had a career as an actor for many years and someone very influential started to look after me. So I decided to uncover more of this desire to be a companion for wealthy men.
My lifestyle is higher-end and constantly growing as my sugar daddy finds ways to pay me more.
As of now, I’ve been a sugar baby for years for many different sugar daddies. It’s gone from being a total submissive to a sugar baby and everything in between.
Why did you become a sugar baby?
My sugar journey began in 2008 so I am well into my sugar career. I live a normal life and I live a sugar baby life as well. In starting my journey, I wanted to be provided with a certain lifestyle. Although I am very successful on my own with my business, I wanted to see if I could have a sugar daddy look after me as well.
Once in a while I stop and look around at what I’ve accomplished for myself as a high end sugar baby. I can’t believe how far I’ve come in this journey and the quality of men I now have as daddies.
I’ve found a niche for myself of business men who make from 500k – 3m/year. I exclusively date sugar daddy whales.
I am able to walk into a jewelry store and tell them I have 2k cash for a cocktail ring so lay out the choices for me. I walk around with real designer handbags, dressed by my sugar daddy from head to toe. And I never pay for any trips anymore.
Restaurants, champagne, suites, Mercedes Benz. It’s really how I live my life now as a high end sugar baby. So, I’d say I have accomplished my sugar baby goals but I’m always striving for more.
What do you wish you had known at first?
I wish I had known what my niche market was. Also, how much power I really have over these men. I also wish I had the confidence to live two lives as I do now.
Currently my sugar life is anonymous because I’m quite well known as a business person. I would have allowed myself to live fully in both worlds and not be afraid to be truly who I am.
Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy?
I met my current sugar daddy through an event. I used to meet some fabulous men on Seeking.com and SugarDaddie.com but I got too busy. Plus, I was meeting some incredible business men on my own so I stopped using the sites.
I did however have great success using a bit of wittiness and proper grammar in my profiles while using the sugar daddy sites.
I believe these high profile men want an educated lady not a brat who just wants their money. These sugar daddies are looking for a companion so you need to interest them but keep some mystique about you in your profile.
What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?
I know the typical answer is “all the stuff I get” but it’s really not. I could buy myself the Hermes I just got.
It’s about the power for me. I adore psychology and seduction and this is a way I get to try out my new strategies.
How do you keep your sugar relationship spicy?
My sugar daddies are typically married so it’s always spicy and fun. However, even if they aren’t married, I think it’s important to always keep them guessing. There’s an element of forever playing hard to get with a man whether he’s your sugar daddy or not.
Men are constantly out to prove and conquer. Let him conquer and then pull back, you’ll have him forever; like he’s under a spell.
I think the fact that I’ve studied human behavior and that I’m self sufficient is pretty unique and also helps. I’m more like a man in a woman’s body. I’m totally dominant and submissive, I know how to sell and I know how to attract any kind of sugar daddy.
What advice would you give to aspiring sugar babies?
Be yourself but be different. I see so many shallow sugar babies on other sites and social media. Like, really? You’re going to shame your sugar daddy because he didn’t buy you the Vuitton and bought you the Coach instead?
Don’t be a brat, these things take time. It took me years to be a high end sugar baby.
You have to have patience and you have to be the one who is controlling the situation. I am a submissive all the way. But I’m a true leader who knows how to control her dominant or sugar daddy.
I love men with egos because they are trying to prove something. However, find one who is super sweet and teach him the ropes, it will pay off majorly.