My name is Pia, I’m a 19 year old German sugar baby. I’ve been a sugar baby now for 1.5 years.
My family got into a bad financial situation because of my mother’s health and therefore I saw no other way but to start working early instead of finishing my desired education. On top of that, we also found ourselves in immense debt.
A little while back a close friend opened up to me about her relationship with a wealthy older man who funds her academic studies, so I figured this might be worth a try to resolve my situation. So I started looking for sugar daddies on various sites and had a couple short term arrangements.
Currently I’m preparing to take up courses as a bachelor of business administration this summer and finally kick-start my career.
What were your goals in starting the sugar journey?
My first goal as a sugar baby was to be able to support my family and pay for my mother’s treatment. With the help of my current sugar daddy we managed to get her a therapy dog which is already far more than I had imagined.
Secondly I’d like to be able to study without debt to get a well-paid job that I enjoy doing. Sugaring has already made it possible to get a lot closer to that goal.
What do you wish you had known when you were first starting out?
When I first started sugaring I wish I had known how difficult and time consuming it can be to find someone suitable as a German sugar baby. The sugar community in Europe is a lot smaller than it is in America.
Makes it a lot more difficult to find a good sugar daddy as a lot of guys here seem to look for something more like an escort which is based on sexual intimacy only, while sugar dating is about a lot more. Lucky enough for me I only live an hour away from Frankfurt, the seat of the European central bank so there are a lot of sugar daddies who work in finance.
Another thing I wish I’d known is that you need to know how to communicate to be a successful sugar baby. A sugar daddy wants to feel special in his baby’s presence, so it’s important that you remember what he tells you.
Read: How to Talk to a Sugar Daddy to Build Attraction and Connection
If you’re talking to several potential sugar daddies at the same time, I suggest you keep a list of information for each one. Then you can go through it before you meet him in person.
On my first few dates I had a bit of an issue with keeping the conversation going smoothly as I was very intimidated and had never considered a relationship with someone that much older than me, but it gets easier over time.
Remember that practice makes perfect. Your nerves may be a wreck the first time but it will get easier and easier over time.
Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy?
I have recently found my long-term daddy on a German site similar to craigslist (it is called markt.de). We clicked instantly. We first met at a café to get to know each other and talk about our expectations.
I think the best way to stand out as a sugar baby is by being confident. Be like a Georgia peach, sweet and soft on the outside but firm on the inside. It is very important that you communicate your standards across clearly.
There are many time wasters (or so-called salt daddies) on these sites. Be careful with your personal data and always put your safety first.
Read: Sugar Daddy Asking for Bank Info: What Info Should You Share?
I recommend talking about the expectations in a possible arrangement early on, even before exchanging numbers. I suggest talking about the financial aspect in person.
What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?
My favorite thing about being a sugar baby is being able to play a role that you aren’t always expected to act like. While it can be exhausting sometimes I consider it an interesting opportunity, that very little people get to see in life.
You get to experience the lives of the rich and famous without being an actual part of that society. You talk to famous, successful and well-travelled people which you probably wouldn’t meet anywhere else otherwise.
I find it very enjoyable to listen to their stories about how they funded their companies or started their career. Many of these men are very lonely as people tend to put them on a pedestal due to their accomplishments.
How do you keep your sugar relationship spicy/fun/interesting?
I think the best way to keep your sugar relationship interesting is to keep it simple and sweet on communication. Texting back and forth a lot tends to be very time consuming. Besides if you aren’t constantly in touch with your daddy you have a lot more to talk about.
Sugar daddies enjoy the company of young, beautiful and intellectual women. Show them your intelligent side but don’t keep your conversations focused on his job only.
After all as a sugar baby you are the fun and refreshing escape from his busy work life.
What advice would you give to aspiring sugar babies?
While it isn’t easy to find someone, especially as a German sugar baby, it also isn’t impossible. If I could do it, you can too, especially if you live in an area where there are more potential sugar daddies.
And you shouldn’t settle for less than you originally wanted.
Be open and honest in your sugar relationship, it makes it easier for you because you don’t have to remember any lies you might have told him, often Sugar Daddies are a lot more understanding than you might think.
Don’t settle for someone you don’t vibe with, just because you want a sugar daddy quickly. You should be able to enjoy the experience as well.
