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How to Find a Sugar Baby in 2023

If you’re wondering how to find a sugar baby, here’s the good news: it’s not difficult. Thanks to modern technology, niche dating – including sugar dating – has become streamlined and mainstream.

So if you’re a sugar daddy looking for a sugar baby, there are a bevy of places to meet sugar babies in your area.

To add to that, as a sugar daddy, you have a huge advantage in numbers. Sugar daddies are outnumbered on most sugar daddy websites. Some sites boast a ratio as high as 8 sugar babies for every 1 sugar daddy.

Still, there are some tips that will expedite your sugar baby search.

We’re going to cover them all. And exactly how you can increase your chances to find a sugar baby quickly and with minimal effort.

Let’s start with the basics.

Where to Find a Sugar Baby: Online vs Offline

There are really two main ways to find a sugar baby: online or offline. Each of these options has its advantages and disadvantages. Here’s a quick look at what to expect.


Quick and easy

Access to tons of sugar babies

Verified users so less scams

Everyone is there for the same thing

Membership fees or credits


Get to assess chemistry right away

Bigger pool of women to choose from…

…But not all of them will be willing

Time consuming

Greater chance of rejection

The greatest benefit of choosing to find a sugar baby online is that it is quick, easy, and painless with very little risk of rejection. It’s time-efficient and the only thing you have to lose is a small amount of money for membership fees or credits.

On the other hand, the offline route consists of seeking out the best places to meet potential sugar babies and showing up consistently. It can involve cold approaches, which increases the risk of offending some women as well as the chance of rejection.

So when it comes to finding a sugar baby, our highest recommendation is to head online.

How to Find a Sugar Baby Online

Sugar daddies and sugar babies have existed since the beginning of time. But thanks to the Internet, we have much more efficient ways to find each other.

That doesn’t mean everywhere online is fair game. Here are the best places to look for a sugar baby – and why.

1. Sugar Daddy Websites

So which sugar daddy website should you go with to find a sugar baby? Well, you can’t go wrong with any of the below. But what you choose comes down to what sort of arrangement you’re looking for. Here are the best ones and their pros and cons.

Secret Benefits

There’s two good reasons why we recommend Secret Benefits as the number one place to meet sugar babies. One, it’s the fastest-growing sugar dating website as of now. And two – it’s completely free for sugar babies. That means they have a huge and constantly expanding pool of sugar babies to choose from.

The best part is that even sugar daddies don’t have to pay for a membership. Instead, you pay only for what you use. That means you purchase credits to contact just the sugar babies who appeal to you and to unlock their private photos.

What’s Your Price

You don’t want to waste days messaging back and forth to find that perfect potential sugar baby. Nope, you want a date NOW. And you’ll take things from there.

If that sounds like you, the perfect place to find a sugar baby is What’s Your Price. It doesn’t cost you anything to sign up and browse attractive members in your area. Once you find one you like, you simply bid on a date.

When she accepts, you pay for some credits to contact her and set up the date. It’s quick, straightforward, and you can meet sugar babies immediately.

Sugar Daddy Meet

This website is an oldie but a goodie. They’ve been connecting sugar daddies with sugar babies for nearly two decades and as a result, they’ve perfected the process.

The website is sleek and streamlined, their security and verification is top notch. But the best thing about Sugar Daddy Meet is that they are highly exclusive. They only serve members from the 20 wealthiest countries in the world and they don’t mess around with fake profiles or sharing member profiles with other dating sites.

Whether you’re looking for a short-term or long-term sugar baby, this is hands down one of the best sites for sugar daddies.

2. Social Media and Vanilla Dating Sites

The best way to meet sugar babies is on a dedicated sugar daddy website. But if, for whatever reason, you don’t want to sign up for a sugar daddy site, you’re not out of options.

You can find a sugar baby on vanilla dating sites like Tinder or Bumble. Or you can even go the social media route, aka Instagram.

This does seem like an easier option if you already have the apps installed on your phone. You already know how to use them and you don’t need to go through a sign-up process. Plus, it’s free and there is a bigger pool of women to choose from.

All that being said, it can be tricky to find a sugar baby on these platforms simply because the majority of the women on these sites aren’t there for an arrangement. You may end up wasting time trying to determine if the women you meet are even interested in the type of relationship you’re offering.

Even worse, if you offend another user or your message sounds like solicitation, your account can end up banned.

To play it safe, filter using the age range and look for specific keywords in the bios. For example, words like “spoiled,” “arrangement,” “mutually beneficial” and so on are good indicators that the woman might be interested in being a sugar baby.

3. Classifieds and Advertising Sites

Last but not least, if you really wanted to make life harder for yourself, you can always try to find a sugar baby on classified sites like Craigslist.

But in our honest opinion, this really isn’t worth the time or effort. While it may seem anonymous and a great way to list exactly what you want, sites like these just don’t get enough web traffic from potential sugar babies. Attractive women in their 20s and 30s are not browsing these websites in search of a sugar daddy. Because it’s not the 90s. And most people are well aware that there are much better options (see above).

The only people likely to respond to your ad are most likely to be escorts and/or scammers. Skip this altogether.

Tips to Find a Sugar Baby Online

Here are a couple tips to expedite the process to meet sugar babies online – and how to stay safe while doing so.

Invest in your sugar daddy profile. The first impression any potential sugar baby has of you is your sugar daddy profile. It doesn’t take much to make it stand out heads and shoulders above the rest. A 10-minute investment is definitely worth it.

Be clear and honest. The smartest thing you can do is to be clear about what you want – and don’t want – in your sugar daddy bio. It lets you immediately weed out the sugar babies who don’t want what you have to offer and narrow your search to the sugar babies who do.

Keep personal details to yourself. Sugar daddy sites come with the same risks that all online dating does – amidst the majority of lovely, legit sugar babies, there are going to be some unsavory fraudsters only interested in scamming sugar daddies. So keep your personal details like your real name, where you work, the details of where you live confidential until you’ve built trust.

Do a video call. Once you’ve exchanged messages with a potential sugar baby, suggest a video call. It’s a smart way to quickly weed out the scammers and lets you get a feel for a potential sugar baby so you know she’s worth taking on a sugar date.

Search where you travel. If you live in a small town, set your search parameters a little bit wider. Or do a sugar baby search for places that you go on trips for business or pleasure.

How to Meet Sugar Babies in Real Life

It’s obvious that sugar daddy websites are the best and easiest places to find a sugar baby. But maybe you want the start of a sugar relationship to not feel transactional. Perhaps you just prefer to do it the old-fashioned way. Well, you have options.

Here are the best ways to find a sugar baby in real life.

1. Freestyle

There are places that tend to attract young, attractive women – many of whom are interested in being wined and dined and all the hallmarks of a high class lifestyle. High end bars and lounges are a good place to start. If you enjoy nightlife, clubs are an option too.

The key here is to not approach with a proposition. Being too straightforward can cause offense. It will take more time but with the freestyle approach, you’ll have to wine and dine her and gently work an arrangement into the discussion.

2. A Sugar Daddy Recommendation

If you have friends or acquaintances that you know are living the sugar daddy life, you can try reaching out for a recommendation. This does require that you be comfortable with some people in your social circle knowing that you’re a sugar daddy.

But it can also result in a high quality and vetted sugar baby that you know from the get go is not a scammer and gives as much as she gets.

3. Strip Clubs

If you’re well-mannered and willing to invest some cash, strip clubs can be a good option to find a sugar baby.

Instead of leading straight into it, if there is a dancer you’ve had your eyes on, ask some questions about her current situation. Is she in school or saving up for school? Try to get a sense of what she is looking for and subtly suss out if she might be interested in being your sugar baby.

Tips to Find a Sugar Baby in Real Life

Here are the top tips you should know when you’re meeting sugar babies in real life.

  • Don’t lead with sex. When you’re a sugar daddy looking for a sugar baby in real life, the last thing you want to do is sound like you’re propositioning them. The women are not on a sugar daddy website, they may not know what an arrangement even is. If you lead with sex, the assumption will be that you are treating them like a prostitute and can cause offense.
  • Talking about your past experiences. When it comes to finding a sugar baby in real life, you don’t want to give the impression that this is your modus operandi. Whereas being an experienced sugar daddy will earn you points on a sugar daddy website – in real life, it can put women on guard.
  • Avoid altogether if you’re married. The rules are different when you’re a married sugar daddy. You need absolute discretion and to be in an arrangement where the expectations and boundaries are crystal clear. The best way to do that is to find an experienced sugar baby who understands and is totally onboard with a sugar relationship. And the best way to do that is online, not in real life.

How Long Does it Take to Find a Sugar Baby?

Here’s the thing: as a sugar daddy, you have a distinct advantage. The numbers are in your favor. You have little competition – especially if you’re a good sugar daddy. There are way more sugar babies seeking what you offer than vice versa.

So it doesn’t take long to find a sugar baby.

Whereas it may take the average sugar baby several months to find a sugar daddy, it only takes the average sugar daddy a week or two.

Of course, it depends on how active you are in your search. But on average, expect to exchange messages with around 5 potential sugar babies for every one successful sugar date.

Most sugar daddies will have a date or two lined up within a couple days of signing up to a sugar daddy site. And from there, it’s just a matter of sorting logistics.

How Much Does a Sugar Baby Cost?

This is an important question. After all, that’s what a sugar daddy is expected to do – provide financial benefits for a sugar baby. So how much does a sugar baby cost?

The truth is that the average sugar baby allowance can range – a lot. If you do a quick Google search, the most quoted number you’ll come across is that the average sugar baby makes $2,800 per month

But if you look closer at what sugar babies actually make, there is a wide range depending on several factors like location, the type of sugar arrangement, as well as the sugar baby’s attractiveness and popularity. As a rule of thumb, the more sugar daddies a sugar baby appeals to, the higher her sugar baby allowance.

In short, the typical sugar baby allowance ranges between $1,000 to $10,000.

It may seem like a huge range. But it makes sense when you consider that the cost of living is very different in Des Moines compared to San Francisco. Types of arrangements vary widely as well. For example, sugar daddies who are looking for overnight stays several times a week can expect to pay more than a sugar daddy who is looking for a once a month sugar date.

And there you have it – everything to need to know to find a sugar baby.

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