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A British Sugar Baby Shares Her Experience of Sugaring in London

I’m a British sugar baby in my early twenties. And from sugar daddies with explosive diarrhea to massive cocks, I’m starting to feel like I’ve seen it all.

Tell us about yourself: who are you?

I am a 20-year-old student based in Brighton and I am going to tell you about my sugar baby experience from the very best to the very worst. One thing if for sure in the life of a sugar baby: you never know what you are going to get.

Although I’m based in Brighton, I travel up to London for most of my sugar daddy dates as I want to keep my sugar and personal life separate. So all of my sugar baby experiences are in London.

I decided to start being a sugar baby after a friend joked about joining the site and in as little a month and a bit, I have made 2500£.

Most people think that sugar babies are just bimbos with no ambition and no incline to work. I can assure you that for me it is not the case. Even though I am a sugar baby I still constantly look for work opportunities, seek to expand my knowledge and my timetable is full of different activities. Such as, music, art, university, student ambassador, course rep, volunteering, helping the homeless and traveling.

What were your goals in starting the sugar journey?

I have very mixed feelings about being a sugar baby. To be fair, I have always enjoyed my experiences but I know that it can be a very taboo subject.

I see being a sugar baby as a business opportunity. Hopefully I’ll meet the right people who can help me out with my career.

If not, I can save and invest the money I have made into something like land or a property, so that I have a secure future ahead of me.

Where and how did you meet your sugar daddy?

My first sugar daddy experience was with a gentleman in his early 30s called Luke. He let me check into the hotel, keep the key as he waited in the lobby so that I felt comfortable. We went for dinner and chatted.

I have had some wonderful dates and some not so amazing dates. For example, one man took me to see the Broadway show Wicked and bought last minute tickets that cost 127£ each. He also booked us into a Hilton Hotel and we had drinks in the executive lounge.

This was the first time we had met. He set the bar very high for himself. A couple of days later, he was going to Florida and had offered to buy my ticket and sort out a visa so I could go with him. But I politely declined due to my other commitments such as university and assignments.

I always get nervous on the journey up to London just before going on a sugar date. But that soon goes away once I’m there.

What do you wish you had known when you were first starting out?

I know why I do it. At first it was purely about the money but now I find it somewhat therapeutic. Now I know what you are thinking, how on earth can being paid to spend time and potentially sleep with men therapeutic.

Well to understand that, you must get to know me better, these sugar dates are more than just sex. It’s listening to someone, talking, opening up to someone and affection. Some sugar daddies have been known to pay for your permanent accommodation, a car and can even help you set up your own business. It’s all about who you meet and what you expect to get out of these experiences.

Now don’t get me wrong if you don’t choose a correct sugar daddy you are not going to get all of this. Some men on that site are just horny buggers and to them I say get a prostitute.

Read: How to Avoid Sugar Daddies Who Just Want Sex

They ask you stupid question like can you find a friend to have a threesome. Or what can I get for this amount of money. Or even would you be ok with having love-eggs in you when we go to dinner so I can play with the remote. These types of men only care about using you for sex.

I set myself some ground rules. I never have unprotected sex even if they show proof that they are clean, never take photos with them and definitely never date a married sugar daddy. Though I have made an exception on the never date a married man rule. He had cared for his terminally ill wife for over 20 years and she is now in a care home.

You can come across some extremely weird/desperate men on Seeking. But this is the same as any dating site. And thankfully I have managed to suss them out before meeting them. Hopefully I will be able to help you other sugar babies with this.

What’s your favorite thing about being a sugar baby?

It’s changed my sex life. In my own private sex life, I have found it quite hard to relax fully and enjoy sex with my partners. Only 3 men that I have had a full sexual relationship with have actually made me cum.

But with a sugar date it’s completely opposite, I have cum 90% of the and the other 10% was literally because I was probably too tired.

The idea of the man wanting and paying to spend time with me is somewhat arousing, as we all know most men are desperate for sex and will fuck anything that moves but with Seeking.com, the man has chosen you and because he finds you attractive and genuinely enjoys your company.

I have also found that the men on this site tend to be more aware of your own personal enjoyment instead of theirs and will do anything to please/ prove themselves in the bedroom department.

What advice would you give to aspiring sugar babies?

I would say be yourself and keep track of your sugar daddies. There is nothing worse than saying the wrong name or forgetting important information about them. It’s not very professional.

I tend to keep notes on my phone about them and our arrangement, such as agreed pay per meet PPM or allowance. Also, how much money they have invested in me, how many times we have met and what we did. Obviously, all this is on a password protected folder because believe me you would not want this to fall into the wrong hands.

Don’t continue seeing a Sugar Daddy if you don’t genuinely enjoy their company. That’s not fun for anyone, even if he is very generous. And trust your instincts. Don’t give a man your home address. Even if he is getting you a taxi home, name the road opposite yours. Especially at first when you don’t know them that well.

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