There are multitudes of sugar dating websites out there but only a few are actually worth your time.
One of these sites is Sugardaddyforme.com. It’s one of the oldest sugar dating websites around and as such, the site is established and huge – with over 4 million members (and growing!).
It is, of course, completely free for sugar babies.
The one thing you must know about Sugar Daddy for Me is this: it’s biggest advantage can also be a disadvantage.
Here’s what we mean: Sugar Daddy for Me has a huge member base of sugar daddies, which is both a good and a bad thing. There are tons of men signing up for this site every day and some of them are real sugar daddies…but some of them are not.
There is wheat on this site, but there is also a lot of chaff and you’ll have to spend the time to really separate the wheat from the chaff on this site.
The large member base also means there are a lot of sugar babies on Sugar Daddy for Me. It’s free and anyone can sign up so expect massive sugar baby competition on this site. If you really wish to avoid being lost in a sea of sugar babies (some active, some not), we highly recommend SugarDaddie.com – it’s paid for both sugar daddies and sugar babies and has a strikingly low number of spammy, outdated, and fake profiles.
That being said, Sugar Daddy for Me is still one of our favorite sites for one main reason: It has proved the best site to find Allowance Daddies.
Perhaps it’s because of the huge quantity of men on this site, but it’s proved by far the easiest website to find sugar daddies who are eager to set up an allowance-based arrangement.
One of us, Caitlin, tested this website over the course of three weeks, during which time she emailed and chatted with around two dozen sugar daddies on this site.
Here’s what she found:
Take advantage of the site while you’re on it if you want to have success. Making a profile is just the beginning. You see, most free sugar dating sites feature new sugar babies which is why you’ll get barraged by interested emails in the first couple of days. But in a week or so, the number of messages you receive decline drastically.
Prevent this from happening by both “Featuring” your profile and proactively messaging promising sugar daddies. On top of this, take full advantage of Sugar Daddy for Me’s Instant Messaging service. It’s awesome. Keep yourself logged on when you’re surfing the Internet and sugar daddies who are logged on will message you.
Caitlin met several potential sugar daddies through the IM service, one of which she entered into an arrangement with (see below).
There are a lot of sugar daddies…and sugar daddy wannabes on this site. She corresponded with around two dozen potential sugar daddies. Of these, she ended up talking on the phone with around a dozen. She vetted these even further and ended up going on dates with four potential sugar daddies. All of the first dates went incredibly well. In detail…
1. The first date was with a retired lawyer in his early 50s who was obviously well-off and looking for some fun, but he had never had an arrangement before and seemed more intent on going on first dates with fun sugar babies instead of actually getting into an arrangement. Pass.
2. The second date was with a businessman also in his early 50s. He was a genuinely sweet man but he traveled immensely and it took nearly 2 weeks to arrange a first date with him. He showed massive interest in an arrangement and wanted to talk further about the terms…but his work took him away again. Phone conversations were had and since Caitlin wanted some assurance that an arrangement would take place, she suggested a gift. He agreed. He never followed through. Pass.
3. The third date was completely unexpected – he IM-ed her and she uncharacteristically agreed to a super casual first date at a local restaurant (within an hour). The potential sugar daddy was only in his early 30s and Caitlin was dubious about his sugar daddy cred, but still curious. An hour into the first date, he asked her what it’d take for him to have her as his sugar baby. She said they could discuss the terms after the first date. At the end of the date, he gave her a small gift of a few hundred dollars for her time.
Over the phone, Caitlin let him know her allowance range. He readily agreed. They arranged to meet again sometime in the coming week to work out the details.
4. But then the fourth date happened. Although she’d already had an offer, Caitlin wanted to meet this fourth potential sugar daddy. He was an entrepreneur in his early 40s, extremely easy-going, and there was a great dynamic from the very first conversation.
They made dinner plans – her choice of restaurant – and they had a great time. He called immediately after the date to ask for her allowance range. For him, she asked for $4,500. He readily agreed. And he showed up the next day to hand her the full amount on a pre-paid card. Needless to say, he became her sugar daddy.
I’ve had similar experiences to Caitlin’s. Sugar Daddy for Me has a huge number of sugar daddies (and sugar daddy wannabes).
I’ve met both through this site.
It does take time to search through the chaff and find the wheat, but overall, Sugar Daddy for Me has had the highest percentage of sugar daddies who have agreed to an allowance-based arrangement.
As such, we’d recommend this site as the go-to place for sugar babies looking for an Allowance Daddy.