One of my favorite things about sugaring is getting to experience some of the finer things in life – things I wouldn’t have been able to experience on my own in my wildest dreams!
Obviously going out to eat is the most basic type of date and is usually how you’ll get to know a new man no matter what the situation. Thanks to these dinner dates, I’ve been to some of the most amazing restaurants in some of the hottest cities in the world but even the most incredible dinner dates can get repetitive if that’s all you’re doing.
And that’s the last thing you want – after all, sugaring is meant to be fun!
So it’s always a good idea to have some fun date ideas in your back pocket if you ever need to inject some excitement into your relationship. Here’s a handy list of fun things to try with your sugar daddy!
Teach each other something
This is always a great idea for a date, no matter what stage of the relationship you’re at. First of all, an activity can always liven things up and second, stepping into each-other’s worlds will bring you closer than ever.
If you have a real talent for painting, buy a canvas and some paintbrushes or book both of you in for a painting class. If golf is where his passion lies, let him take you to a driving range and show you how to tee off.
It’ll be a fun afternoon and who knows, maybe you’ll develop a passion for it on your own and it will be something you can do together going forward.
Go to a comedy club
It’s pretty obvious why this is going to be on any list of suggested dates – who’s not going to have fun at a comedy club? It generally doesn’t matter if it’s a comedian (or comedians) you recognize as either way, you’re guaranteed to have a few laughs no matter what.
It’s also perfect if you don’t want to veer too far away from a typical dinner date as you can always find places with some nibbles too. Have a few drinks, have a lot of laughs and there won’t be an awkward pause all night.
Game night
This has got to be one of my favorite things to do and it’ll loosen up even the tightest of couples. You can pretty much choose any games you or your sugar daddy enjoy – the only other things you need is some takeout and a bottle of wine!
You can make your own rules (and your own stakes for the loser). I like to really inject some fun into it and make the stakes fun and sexy (think along the lines of loser has to strip, etc.). You obviously have to pretty comfortable with your sugar daddy so I’d advise waiting until you’ve been out together a few times before suggesting it but I’ve never had a man say no to this when I’ve brought it up!
Go to the zoo
This is a great date, even if you’re only starting out with your sugar daddy. It’s basically impossible for it to be awkward with so much to talk about. Most people love at least some kind of animal and on a sunny day, there’s no better place to be!
One of the best dates I was ever taken on was to Central Park Zoo. I had mentioned on our first date that I loved tigers and leopards and so, about three days later, he brought me to the zoo to see the snow leopard they have. It was so much fun and we genuinely spent the day laughing and pointing out the animals to each other like big kids.
Definitely one of my top recommendations, whether you’re just starting out or already in a committed relationship.
Sexy night in
Usually with my sugar daddies, I travelled to their homes if we were having nights in or watching a movie, etc. When I really want to make an effort, I decide to take the reins and invite him over to my place. I’ll plan a meal, buy a bottle of wine and some hot new lingerie and put on some sexy music.
Again, obviously this won’t be something you’ll do for just any guy but once you’re comfortable with him, this will be any man’s dream so don’t hesitate to offer it for some guaranteed spice!
Spend the night somewhere new
You’ve been to his place, he’s been to your place…so why not try somewhere new? Even just going to a random, nearby city to spend a night in a swanky hotel is exciting but if you really want to step it up a notch – hop onto Airbnb and book a night (or two) somewhere you’ve never thought you’d sleep, like a boat or a tree house.
It’ll lead to some crazy, funny memories and you’ll both have a blast stepping out of your comfort zone.
Picnic in the park
This is probably the easiest date to organize on this list. I usually like to suggest this to a man early on as it takes away distractions and really allows you to get to know each other and it also shows your SD you don’t need all your dates to be fancy or expensive for you to enjoy.
I usually go to a deli and get a couple of sandwiches and salads and if you’re worried about any awkwardness, you can always bring along a pack of cards or even a speaker and you can discuss what kind of music you’re both into.
Technically, it is just a variation of the typical dinner date we discussed at the start but it’s a different setting and will shake things up.
Couples massage
As a big lover of anything to do with a spa, this is always going to be a favorite of mine. Most spas and salons will offer a couples massage and even with other people actually giving you the massages, it can be quite a sensual experience.
If you want to kick things up a notch, you can always buy the oils yourself and give each other massages. Set down a nice soft towel on the bed and light some candles to set the mood. Make a rule that you’re not allowed to kiss each other until both massages are over. It’ll really build the tension between you and a great night should follow!
This post is brought to you by one of our contributing SB writers, Aly, aka The Travelholic Sugar Babe. You can check out her sugar baby story here!