I’m a full time business woman in my 30s who happened to stumble into the sugar world almost 10 years ago. I had a career as an actor for many years and someone very influential started to look after me so I decided to uncover more of this desire to be a companion for wealthy men. My lifestyle is higher-end and constantly growing as my sugar daddy finds ways to pay me more.
As of now, I’ve been a sugar baby for years for many different sugar daddies. It’s gone from being a total submissive to a sugar baby and everything in between.
My sugar journey began in 2008 so I am well into my sugar career. I live a normal life and I live a sugar baby life as well. In starting my journey, I wanted to be provided with a certain lifestyle and although I am very successful on my own with my business, I wanted to see if I could have a sugar daddy look after me as well.
Once in a while I stop and look around at what I’ve accomplished for myself. I can’t believe how far I’ve come in this journey and the quality of men I now have as daddies.
I’ve found a niche for myself of business men who make from 500k – 3m/year. I am able to walk into a jewelry store and tell them I have 2k cash for a cocktail ring so lay out the choices for me. I walk around with real designer handbags, dressed by my sugar daddy from head to toe and I never pay for any trips anymore.
Restaurants, champagne, suites, Mercedes Benz. It’s really how I live my life now. So, I’d say I have accomplished my goals and I’m always striving for more.
I wish I had known what my niche market was and how much power I really have over these men. I also wish I had the confidence to live two lives as I do now.
Currently my sugar life is anonymous because I’m quite well known as a business person. I would have allowed myself to live fully in both worlds and not be afraid to be truly who I am.
I met my current sugar daddy through an event. I used to meet some fabulous men on Seeking Arrangement and SugarDaddie.com but I got too busy and was meeting some incredible business men on my own so I stopped using the sites.
I did however have great success using a bit of wittiness and proper grammar in my profiles while using the sugar daddy sites. I believe these high profile men want an educated lady not a brat who just wants their money. These sugar daddies are looking for a companion so you need to interest them but keep some mystique about you in your profile.
I know the typical answer is “all the stuff I get” but it’s really not. I could buy myself the Hermes I just got. It’s about the power for me. I adore psychology and seduction and this is a way I get to try out my new strategies.
My sugar daddies are typically married so it’s always spicy and fun. However, even if they aren’t married, I think it’s important to always keep them guessing. There’s an element of forever playing hard to get with a man whether he’s your SD or not.
Men are constantly out to prove and conquer. Let him conquer and then pull back, you’ll have him forever; like he’s under a spell.
I think the fact that I’ve studied human behavior and that I’m self sufficient is pretty unique and also helps. I’m more like a man in a woman’s body. I’m totally dominant and submissive, I know how to sell and I know how to attract any kind of sugar daddy.
Be yourself but be different. I see so many shallow sugar babies on other sites and social media. Like, really? You’re going to shame your sugar daddy because he didn’t buy you the Vuitton and bought you the Coach instead? Don’t be a brat, these things take time.
You have to have patience and you have to be the one who is controlling the situation. I am a submissive all the way but I’m a true leader who knows how to control her dominant or SD. I love men with egos because they are trying to prove something. However, find one who is super sweet and teach him the ropes, it will pay off majorly.