Hey ladies! Dulce here from the beautiful city of Chicago! I am a 24 year old Latina in the business industry. I have been sugaring since 2015 and have been with my current sugar daddy for about 2.5 years.
I started to sugar because I had just graduated college and lived at home with my parents and wanted to move out. My initial goal was just to save some money to move and during that time I rented a place and was able to buy my first home just a few weeks ago!
Starting off as a sugar baby I did a lot of research but there were still a few things I wish I knew before going on POT dates:
The main way I look for daddies is on Tinder and Seeking Arrangment. I think what makes me stand out from other sugar babies is the effort I put into my profile. I am very honest about what I want and what my expectations are, I have learned this attracts the REAL daddies.
My favorite thing about being a sugar baby is the fact that I don’t have to use my own money to pay my mortgage and bills 😉
Aside from that, I like being able to meet older men who can give me advice on my future. They’re rich, successful men, they have connections and can mentor you!!
I constantly get ladies asking me questions on my Tumblr so I decided I’d share some of the most asked questions:
Do I come up with a fake name?
YES!!! I usually use a shortened version of my name or do a longer one. But nothing they can use to find me on social media.
Do not give your last name unless you have established an arrangement. If you don’t need to give it to him, don’t. I give them my real name if I’m traveling and they’re booking flights or they need to send me money. I ONLY DO THIS ONCE I HAVE VERIFIED THEY ARE WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE.
What are standard prices for meet and greets and allowance?
You ask what you are comfortable with. I think a legit daddy would not give you less than $500 per date once you have established something. My daddy gives me $1500/month and I see him about 4x a month.
At the beginning it’s usually on a per date basis. Most men do not want to feel like they’re being used, so I start off with “well I’d like to do what you’re comfortable with but my previous sugar daddy gave me ___”
As a sugar baby, is it acceptable to have a limit for what you would allow sexually?
LADIES!!! Only do what you are comfortable with!!! Sex does not equal money and money does not equal sex! If you take away anything, remember that.
Always be bold and confident about what you will and won’t do. I have had sex on a first date but only because I wanted to. I do not recommend being sexual the first meet. Always know you have a secure arrangement before you give him anything physical.
Hope you were able to learn something from me today!