Some sugar babies still seem to be laboring under the impression that they aren’t pretty enough or thin enough to find a sugar daddy.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Sugar babies come in various shapes, sizes, colors, and ages. If you’re having no luck attracting a quality sugar daddy, chances are you should be focusing on sharpening your persona.
Here are 5 simple tips to get you on your way to becoming an irresistible sugar baby!
People like givers. Why? Because in the presence of a giver, you are always receiving. You receive compliments, you receive consideration, you receive attention, you receive love…why would anyone not want to be with a giver?
Many sugar babies join sugar daddy sites with the taker mindset, constantly focusing on what they want from their sugar daddies and how they’re going to get it. This is surefire way to attract a fake sugar daddy – one who will only be thinking about what he can get from you.
Genuine sugar daddies are sugar daddies because they enjoy giving. But they are not silly enough to be constantly taken from without receiving anything in return.
It’s a good idea to know what you want out of a sugar relationship, but once you know this – the rest of your attitude should be focused on giving.
Show it in simple ways: contribute to the conversation by actively listening, remember the things he’s interested in and learn about it or suggest similar things to him, be generous and thoughtful with your consideration of him. Pretty soon, you’ll find yourself on the receiving end of pleasant things as well.
When you give someone something, doesn’t their gratitude make you want to give them more? On the other hand, if they express no thanks or acknowledgement, you’re probably not going to be dropping any favors or gifts their way any time soon.
Gratitude is so simple to express that there’s just no excuse for not doing so every chance you get.
Thank the potential sugar daddy you’re having coffee with for his time. Say it with a big smile so he knows you mean it. Thank him if he insists on paying for your coffee and blueberry muffin. Yes, he’s a sugar daddy and he always insists on paying, but that doesn’t mean you should be any less grateful for it.
Be thankful for the small things and bigger things will come your way.
This doesn’t mean you have to take up a cause and become a raging and ranting advocate.
You can simply sprinkle a little bit of passion on your everyday gestures and mannerisms – it’ll have the effect of making you irresistible.
Engage him with your eyes, smile widely and openly, laugh aloud and from the belly, and just generally allow yourself to become excited and passionate whenever the opportunity presents itself.
Happiness is one aphrodisiac that doesn’t get enough mention. It is free and it multiplies the more you use it. Not to mention that it’s highly contagious. Just being happy in a potential sugar daddy’s presence will rub off on him and leave him with a positive impression of you. One that he’s very likely to remember.
On the other side of the spectrum, there’s complaining. The last thing a sugar daddy wants from his sugar baby is complaining. If you’re in the habit of talking about what is wrong with your life, expect to repel every genuine sugar daddy you’ll ever meet.
If you’ve fallen into the trap of complaining for too long and find that it’s too hard to suddenly revert to being a happy person, try simply holding back whenever you have a negative thing to say. Suddenly trying to be happy may come off forced and insincere, but if you just hold back whatever complaint you were just about to utter – in time, you’ll find yourself becoming less of a negative person and more of a happy one.
Happy people are addicting to be around because they put you at ease. Happiness does not mean being some wide-eyed, bushy-tailed peppy cheerleader type twenty-four hours a day. That’s exhausting. Really happy people are the ones who are relaxed, easy-going, and not bothered by much. You can spot them pretty easily – they’re not the ones running around with maniacal excitement in their eyes…they’re the ones that aren’t bothered by it.
This last one is a key point to not only keeping your sugar daddy interested, but keeping you interested in your life, the world, and yourself. Newfound sugar babies suddenly find themselves with a lot of time on their hands. Don’t whittle this time away just shopping, lounging, or chatting with your friends.
Use this time wisely to try new things, explore new options, give to your community, and learn more. Do everything you can to continuously be growing, learning, improving, experimenting, and thriving.
Share what you’re doing with your sugar daddy. Chances are, he’ll want to do even more for you to keep you around. Why? ‘Cause there is nothing sexier than a sugar baby who is always expanding (figuratively, of course).